fresh start...

 

So...life...enough said.  I've definitely had the busiest season of life, thus far.  Between sickness in the family (which makes for a lot of traveling and emotional stress), the always hectic school and work, then add in planning a wedding and you've topped the patience and sanity scale.  Oh! Put in applying to a new school in a new city and researching jobs and living down there, plus buying a new car, all within about a month after a honeymoon? Yeah, forgot about all that.

This has been my season of prayer.  Without Him, and all of the love He gives me through the people around me, I would have definitely turned into a puddle of goo long ago.  God is teaching me grace and patience, if I've ever seen it taught, which has made me even more grateful for my loving friends and family.

All of the change in my life has made me think that it's time for a little change on this blog, don't you think?  After the wedding, honeymoon, and moving to LA, I'll be moving Simply Blessed to a new blog.  A fresh blog, a fresh name, a fresh start.  That's what I'm excited for in this new year of change: a fresh start. 
I have the tendency to focus on the future and the things that I can't change or control.  I need to remind myself that God has given me today to live today, only He knows about tomorrow.  I'm so excited for this new chapter.  A chance to grab onto the new, embrace today, live in the moment, and thank God every step of the way.

See you in the next chapter! xoxo

i'm engaged!...

I've been a little busy lately...getting engaged!! :D I think that's a pretty good excuse for not posting in a while...yeah, sounds good.
With new wedding stuff going on, it's been pretty darn busy around here. School's almost over too - so crazy! I'm so looking forward to Christmas break. I love the holiday season - can't wait!

piped roses...

Well, life's been pretty darn busy lately! All fun things (awesome classes, great job, etc.), but still busy! One class I'm taking is cake decorating - definitely the hardest class, but very rewarding. Those roses are piped frosting - so fun! :)

hunington '13...

It's been two years since I had gone to Lake Hunington with my friends, and let me tell you, I missed it so much! It's such a wonderful time of relaxation and fellowship with friends - definitely a much-needed trip before the semester starts (which is next week!). :)

one perfectly imperfect year...

It has been one year since Garrett and I started dating, and I can say with confidence that it has been the best year of my life. We've been friends for about 5 years, he's been my best guy-friend (if people still use that term) for about 3 years, and now he's been my incredible boyfriend for 1 year. It has been the perfect year. Why? Because it's been imperfect.
At this stage of the relationship, a common question we both get from different people is, "Well, have you guys had a fight?" At first, we didn't really know what to think about the question. When taken out of context, it almost sounds cynical. "Well, if you haven't had one yet, you will! And when you do, you'll see their true nature, and boy you better be prepared!" Insert evil laugh here.
The thing the I love about our relationship is that it's so imperfect that it's real. We started answering these people's questions with "while we've never had a "fight," per se, we've had deep discussions that has left the other person hurt or uneasy/unsure." Some topics have left us uneasy for weeks, but we still talk about it and probe at it -- seeking other's advice when necessary -- until we find a solution to the problem, and when we do, it's the best feeling in the world! Because from that point on, we know how to deal with that problem quickly and easily, with little/no feelings hurt, and if they are, a sincere apology and a kiss are all we need to be able to forgive and move on.
My definition of a perfect relationship: knowing that it is and will forever be imperfect, and knowing that those imperfections draw us closer to each other because they draw us closer to God. Knowing we are flawed, knowing that God is the foundation of our relationship, knowing how much we love, support, and find joy in each other; this is the imperfection that is perfection. The perfect relationship - one that is real.
I can say with confidence that I have the perfect relationship because it's real. Heck, I don't even wear make up around him! How much more real can it get? :)

Thank you, Garrett, for one perfectly imperfectly year. I love you so much, and I can't wait to experience many more years with you. :) Happy Anniversary!

one year...

I can't believe it's already been a year since my surgery - while it feels like ages ago, it also feels like it was only a few months ago that I was laying in a hospital bed, slowly getting up, and learning how to walk again.
It's been an incredible journey thus far, and I think it's still just beginning. God has put so many incredible people in my life to help support and love me throughout this journey, and I feel so blessed to have them with me.
I am  grateful for my family who has always had - and will always have - my best interest at heart. I am grateful for my friends who have always accepted and loved me just the way I am. I am grateful for the incredible man God has given me, who will always love and support me no matter what. I am grateful for God and His perfect plan he's created for me, and that I have no control over it (thank the Lord!).
I am grateful. I am loved. I will continue on this journey with those that I love, and with those that love me in return, and I will thank God that I have them by my side every step of the way.

first time auto-x racer...

Today was my first time driving in auto-x since I took the class last month. I have to admit I was nervous getting behind the wheel again, but I was very happy I did. :) Looking forward to next month!